i think i helping many of them asking this question.
Are you single now?

不对， 没有爱情的生命依然可以过的很灿烂！没有生命的爱情就如行尸走肉般..

说太多了，说多错多.. :P
但，放开手后，就别在留念了.. 喜欢你的人因为得不到你的喜欢有时候会很伤心的哦！

我.. 算是过来人吧？嘿~

LOL at MengZ and 彦's comment.

Share with you something which quick meaningful:

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉; 因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的,也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；你最爱的，往往没有选择你；最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。

你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？

In reply to what potato had said:

gosh...u are really a potato head!
why must we fall into the 3rd category? i.e. why do we have to be "double"?

STAY single, if you are not sure you want to be double. It may be sad to be single, but it's a tragedy to be with someone you don't really like for life.

Potato's 3rd option is possible, only if you are desperate enough. But love is not something out of desperation.

(This comment is a bit overdue...but hell...i just din like potato's comment) LOL :D